OBITUARIES for Thursday, September 19, 2024

JOYCE L. BENNER

WALDOBORO/WINDSOR – Joyce L. Benner, 101, of Windsor and formerly of Waldoboro, passed away on Wednesday, August 28, 2024. Joyce was born in Waldoboro, on March 4, 1923, the daughter of Millard and Lillian (Rosco) Creamer.

Joyce was co-owner of Benner’s Crabmeat for 30 years, and previously worked for Country Manor Nursing Home.

She loved raising animals, gardening, hunting, and her favorites were playing beano and going to lawn sales. She will always be remembered for her delicious crabmeat and will be missed by many. She was a strong woman, a member of the Whitefield Lions Club, and had a way of taking care of everyone.

Joyce was pre-deceased by her parents, her sister Madeline, brothers Carl and Arthur, beloved husband Alfred and son “Bobo” Malcolm Genthner.

She is survived by a son Ronald Genthner and partner Lois, of Waldoboro; daughters Maureen Beaucage and husband Brian, of Rochester, New Hampshire, Sheila Bernier, of Sabattus, Kathleen Good, of Florida, and Kimberly Haskell and husband Carleton, of Jefferson; sister-in-law Ruth Benner, of Rockland; many nieces, nephews and could boast many grandchildren, great-grandchildren, great-great-grandchildren, and great- great-great-grandchildren.

There will be a celebration of life for family and friends on Saturday, October 5, 2024, from 1 – 4 p.m., at the Whitefield Lions Club.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Joyce’s memory can be sent to the Whitefield Lions Club, reference “Keep Me Warm”- 66 Philips Rd, Jefferson, ME 04348.

Arrangements are under the care and direction of Hall Funeral Home, Waldoboro. To share a story or condolence with the Benner family, please visit Joyce’s Book of Memories at www.hallfuneralhomes.com

PETER J. GERVAIS

CHINA – Peter J. Gervais, 71, passed away on Thursday, September 5, 2024. He was born June 26, 1953, in Augusta.

Pete lived a life centered on his love for his family, community and country. He had a charitable heart, a great sense of humor, and was a man of principles.

Pete graduated from Cony High School, in Augusta, and enlisted in the U.S. Navy where he served as a marine mechanic for four years. He made some true friends while in the Navy, referred to them as his brothers, and spoke with them on a regular basis.

After his years in the Navy, Pete had several careers, notably working at Formtek starting in 1989 and retiring in 2016. During his employment at Formtek, he served as president of the union for several years. He also took on a second job mowing and maintaining the cemeteries for the town of Albion.

Pete was an outdoorsman who spent many vacations canoeing and camping in the Allagash region. In his younger years he enjoyed rock climbing, hiking, biking, mushing sled dogs, weight lifting and running. Pete was a beekeeper and loved making gifts of his honey. Most notable was Pete’s love for cats. He had many over the years, cherishing and spoiling them.

Pete is survived by his wife Jennifer; his daughter Alyssa and her partner Craig; grandsons Aero and Nash; as well as his friend and sister Joan, her husband Dan and nephew Joel.

He was predeceased by his parents Omer and Louise Gervais.

A Celebration of Life is scheduled for Sunday, September 22, at noon, at the Bessey building, in Albion. All are welcome to attend.

A private burial will be announced at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to any humane society.

DOROTHY M. AUDET

WATERVILLE – Dorothy “Dot” M. Audet, 106, passed away on Friday, September 6, 2024, at Northern Light Continuing Care, Lakewood, in Waterville, where she had been a resident for the last six years. She was born on August 10, 1918, the daughter of William and Eva (Foster) Paquette.

Dot grew up in Fairfield and graduated from Lawrence High School in 1935.

Dot married Edward Audet in 1939. She had a truly deep faith in God and was a devout Catholic all her life. She was a communicant of St. John the Baptist Church, in Winslow, where she was a faithful member of the Rosary Sodality for many years. She was able to walk to daily Mass until the age of 91.

She was a devoted mother and grandmother. She loved her flower gardens and loved playing cards with family and special longtime friends. She made the best molasses cookies and peanut butter fudge. The family looked forward to Friday night spaghetti dinners. Her faith and family were most important to her, and she will be truly missed.

She was predeceased by her husband, Edward, and her siblings Wallace, Roland, Eugene, Priscilla Paquette and Doreen Violette, her two sons, Wayne and David Audet, and by her grandson, Ricky Hendsbee.

She is survived by her son, Larry Audet and wife Elaine, of Princeton, North Carolina; her three daughters, Doreen Roy and husband Paul, of Stafford, Virginia, Jeannine Hendsbee, of Winslow, and Judy Hendrick and husband Bo, of West Gardiner; her daughter-in-law, Martha Audet, of Winslow; 11 grandchildren, Arlene McLean and husband David, John Audet and wife Ashley, Beth Pelletier and husband Dominic, Stephanie Roy, Colonel Christopher Roy and wife Anita, Kevin Roy, Luke Hendsbee and wife Liz, Brian Audet and wife Jennifer, Christa Brown and husband Joe, Lt. Colonel Robert Hendrick and wife Chelsea, and Lauren Niles and husband Jonathan; 34 great-grandchildren; and several great-great-grandchildren.

Her great-granddaughter, Madilyn Roy, was born on her 100th birthday.

A Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated on Wednesday, September 18, at St. John the Baptist Church, 26 Monument Street, Winslow, followed by a burial at St. Francis Catholic Cemetery, 78 Grove Street, Waterville.

Arrangements are under the direction and care of Gallant Funeral Home, 10 Elm Street, Waterville. An online guestbook may be signed, condolences and memories shared at http://www.gallantfh.com.

In lieu of flowers, those who wish may donate to her favorite charity Servants of the Blessed Sacrament, 101 Silver St., Waterville, ME 04901.

RUSSELL S. BICKFORD JR.

CLINTON – Russell S. Bickford, Jr., 76, passed away following a short illness on Friday, September 6, 2024. Russell was born on December 2, 1947, in Waterville, son of Russell S. Bickford Sr. and Laura (Downing) Bickford.

He graduated Class of ‘65 from Clinton High School, then immediately entered the United States Navy where he served proudly for the next four years until he was honorably discharged in 1969. In 1974 he graduated from Kennebec Valley Technical College, in Fairfield, (KVTC) with a certificate in carpentry. With his education he was able to help family members and friends build their garages and remodel their homes.

Russell began his career as a carpenter working for LL Gerald, and then for a short time at Scott Paper Co., in Winslow. The job that he retired from after 30 years was the Maine Central Railroad as an engineer, at times working with his father as the conductor on the same train.

For the next seven years he wintered in Florida to be close to his aging father. When his father had to come back to Maine due to declining health, Russell decided it was time for him to give up his winters in Florida as well. It was a time to enjoy the winters at home in Clinton with his family and friends.

Russell was a longtime member of the Masonic Lodge # 146, in Clinton, as well as recently becoming a member of the Elks Lodge # 905, in Waterville. He loved to go there for Wednesday Wing Night, Buck Night, and Sportsman’s Night.

One of his greatest enjoyments was spending time on Moosehead Lake at the Watson’s family camp. Russell so enjoyed the ice fishing, the rides on the party boat, and just being there. He also enjoyed going to the Bickford camp (God’s Little Acre), in Monson, where some of the 4-wheeling trips took place in which he loved to participate. Anywhere North is where he wanted to be. Another passion he had was a good game of golf with friends and family.

He was predeceased by both his parents and brothers Meredith, Alan, David, and Randy.

Russell is survived by his sisters Lynn Bickford and partner Charlie Weymouth, of Clinton, Marsha Duprey and husband Leo, of Clinton; children David Bickford and wife Katrina, of Clinton, Brian Bickford and wife Tara, of Clinton, Lorriann Watson and husband David “Skip”, of Canaan, and Julie Bickford and fiancé Cody Williamson, of Madison; grandchildren Brittany Laney, Monique Bickford, Briannah Dostie, Thomas Bickford, Derek Bickford, Suther Bickford, Devon Watson, Lauren Watson, Dylan Bickford, Kaiyley Bickford, Landon Dunham, Colton Williamson, and Carter Williamson; 11 great-grandchildren with another on the way; many nieces, nephews, and cousins; as well as his long-time friends Butch Whittaker, Don Proctor, and William “Smitty” Smith.

A graveside service will take place at 11 a.m., on Saturday, September 21, 2024, at Greenlawn Cemetery, Rte. 100, in Clinton.

There will be a Celebration of Life from noon to 4 p.m., on Saturday October 5, 2024, at the Waterville Elks Lodge #905, Industrial Street, in Waterville.

Please visit Russell’s memorial page at https://dsfuneral.com/obituaries/russell-bickford where condolences, photos, and special memories may be shared.

CONNOR M. McCURDY

SIDNEY – Conner James McCurdy, 22, passed away Sunday, September 8, 2024, at MaineGeneral Medical­Center, in Augusta. He was born May 28, 2002, a son of Stacy and Donna (Plourd) McCurdy.

Connor attended and graduated from Messalonskee High School, in Oakland, in the class of 2020. During middle school and all four years of high school, Connor was a team member of Infinite Loop 2648. He went on to further his education by attending classes at Kennebec Valley Community College, in Fairfield. Conner was a skilled gamer and enjoyed playing video games and watching anime. Some of his favorite shows included Law and Order and South Park.

Despite living with muscular dystrophy, Conner had a good sense of humor. He loved spending time with his animals and although a homebody, Connor enjoyed going out on trips and looked forward to future adventures.

Connor was predeceased by his paternal grandparents, Donald and Esther McCurdy, his maternal grandparents, Joseph and Carmeline Plourd; his uncles, Russell Manduca and Ronald Plourd; and his father, Stacy McCurdy in 2023.

Connor is survived by his mother Donna McCurdy; his brother Ian McCurdy; uncles Shawn McCurdy (Lois), Bruce Plourd (Dana); aunt, Tammy Manduca; many cousins.

A memorial service was held on Monday, September 16, at Plummer Funeral Home, 16 Pleasant St., Augusta, ME 04330. Burial followed at Holy Family Cemetery, on Townsend Rd., in Augusta.

Condolences, stories and photos may be shared by visiting http://www.plummerfh.com.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Connor’s name may be made to Humane Society Waterville Area, 100 Webb Rd., Waterville, ME 04901 or at hwsa.org or, Muscular Dystrophy Association, Inc., 1016 W Jackson Blvd #1073, Chicago, Il 60607 or at mda.org.

JAMES A. MILLIGAN

SIDNEY – James A. Milligan, 73, passed away on Thursday, September 12, 2024. He was born November 2, 1950, following a period of declining health.

He could build or fix anything. His belief was there are no problems, only solutions.

His sense of humor was one of a kind. He loved to tell a good joke with that grin and sparkle in his eyes, never taking life too seriously.

His career consisted mainly of being a meat cutter, managing his own business, Mace’s Meat Market, in Ashland, for many years before returning to Sidney and turning the former Bangs Beach into what it is now, The Lakeside Lodge. He passed down his tireless love and care of the family property on Bangs Beach to the next generation.

He would tell stories of the glory days as a Cony High graqduate of 1969, his childhood adventures and his weekly recaps of Days of our Lives. He will be remembered fondly for many family camping trips, summers at the lake, his love of cooking, fishing and most of all the countless sunsets around the campfire.

He is survived by his wife of 56 years, wife Agnes Milligan; daughters Laurie, Maggi and Mandy; sons-in-law Royce Witham, Adam Stone, and Andrew Campbell; grandchildren, Jason, Derek and Owen; great-grandchildren, Sophia, Lucas, Harper and DJ; and son, Daniel and family.

A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, October 5, from 2 – 4 p.m., at The Lakeside Lodge, 28 Marigold Lane, Sidney.

META LEE HART

Meta Lee Hart, 73, of Canaan, (formerly of Wood-Ridge, New Jersey) passed away on Sunday, August 25, 2024.

She is survived by her brother Ernie and his wife Susan; her nephew Dalton Strunck; niece Victoria Pandel, and many friends both near and far.

Meta was predeceased by her husband, Frank, parents Ernest and Josephine Strunck, brothers Walter, Bruce, and sister, Elaine.

At Meta’s request there will be no service.

ROBERT S. REED

VASSALBORO – Robert “Bob” S. Reed, 61, passed away on Friday, July 26, 2024, at MaineGeneral Comfort Care at Glenridge, in Augusta. He was born in Waterville on February 27, 1963, the son of the late Alva and Shirley (Fletcher) Reed, of North Anson.

He grew up in North Anson and graduated from Carrabec High School in 1981. He then obtained his bachelor of science degree in electrical engineering technology in May 1986 at the University of Maine, Orono. He was inducted into the Phi Kappy Phi Engineering Society.

Bob met his wife, Jessica, while she was a senior in high school, and he was a junior in college in Maine. They dated for five years while both finishing degrees at different colleges, including Bob graduating and traveling to Texas for a Texas Instruments (TI) training program for 18 months, and then he accepted a position in Waltham, Massachusetts, with TI as a distribution channel sales manager for six years. He then worked for Genesis Associates, as a distribution channel manager, sales engineer for almost 13 years, in Burlington, Massachusetts, before returning to Maine in June 2007. Once in Maine he became a project Manager/Developer with Paine Properties, and then held the position of General manager at NETCo Inc., and finished his working career as a general manager at Thayer Corporation. He then focused his attention even more on battling his cancer and fighting as hard as possible every day.

On October 7, 1989, Bob married Jessica (Paine), and they lived briefly in Burlington and Framingham, Massachusetts, before moving to Westford for almost eight years, then Hampstead, New Hampshire, for almost 10 years, returning to Maine to settle in Vassalboro in 2007.

Bob was a devoted family man and loyal friend who would lend a hand to anyone in need without hesitation. He was also “Mr. Hobby,” who enjoyed learning magic tricks and performing magic shows for neighborhood birthday parties, collecting stamps, working on model trains, and teaching himself how to whittle wood. Bob loved Scouting and devoted over 20 years volunteering as a Cubmaster, in Hampstead, and then as an Assistant Scoutmaster and Scoutmaster,, in Vassalboro, Troop #410. His two sons achieved the rank of Eagle Scout, and he assisted 14 other young men in Troop #410 to Eagle rank as well. Bob also had a passion for music and the outdoors. Enjoying and playing music on his guitars was a big part of his life. He was an avid hiker, snowboarder, and loved being outdoors as much as possible – especially on Embden Lake.

Bob was predeceased by his parents, Alva and Shirley Reed, Aunt Essie Ferguson, and cousin Bill Ferguson.

He is survived by his wife, Jessica; their four children, Becca, Josh, Seth, and Paige; brother David Reed; brother-in-law Mark Paine; sister-in-law Wendy Paine; nephew, Conner Paine; nieces Courtney Paine, and Laurie Ferguson, wife of cousin Bill Ferguson.

A Celebration of Life was held on Sunday, September 15, at the Winthrop YMCA Camp of Maine, located at 305 Winthrop Center Road, Winthrop, Maine.

Arrangements are in the care of Veilleux, Redington and Lawry Brothers Funeral Home, 8 Elm St, Waterville, where condolences, memories, and photos may be shared with the family on the obituary page of the website at https://www.vrlfuneralhome.com/.

Those who wish may make a memorial contribution to the MaineGeneral Comfort Care Unit at Glenridge, online at https://give.mainegeneral.org/comfort, or by mail payable to MaineGeneral Health, Comfort Care at Glenridge, P.O. Box 828, Waterville, ME 04903 – marked as a “Tribute Gift for Bob Reed” or by phone at 207-626-1809.

The family also set up a Bob Reed Memorial Campership for Vassalboro Troop #410 for Scouts that would like to attend Scout Camp in the summer but need financial assistance to do so.

Donations can be sent to Assistant Scoutmaster Steve Polley, 19 Szady Drive, Vassalboro, ME 04989.

JAMES S. MIXON JR.

WINSLOW – James Sidney Mixon Jr., 61, passed away on Wednesday, June 26, 2024. He was born on September 18, 1962, in Amite, Louisiana, the son of James S. Mixon Sr. and Mary Emma (Noel).

With his dad passing away a year later, Mary returned to Maine where her sister lived. Jim grew up in Winslow where he was a member of the Babe Ruth league in school and also participated in cross country. He often ran the five miles from home to school as practice.

Jim attended Job Corps, in Bangor, where he learned to weld. He also met his future wife, Heather Inman.

They moved to Medway and to Sanbornton, New Hampshire, where he held various positions and soon became a member of the pipe fitters association with the Local Union #537, in Massachusetts.

During that time, he was able to travel with his mother to New Brunswick, Canada, to re-acquaint with relatives at the Red Bank Indian Reservation. He also established his Native status. He became a firekeeper and participated in sweat lodges, learning many customs. He was able to fish the Miramichi River and landed a 40-pound salmon on a 10-pound test line, following a 45-minute struggle. He bragged about that for years.

Following his divorce from Heather, he continued his welding career and traveled all over the country. He remarried and lived in Tilton, New Hampshire. An accident disabled him and he was forced to retire. He returned to Winslow to retire, leaving Nashua, New Hampshire.

Jim was predeceased by his parents, along with aunt and uncle Jerry and Maggie Languet; his half-brother Monroe Mixon, and great-nephew Sidney James Boynton.

He is survived by his children, Bridget, of Sanbornton, New Hampshire, and Ryan, of Winslow; stepson Eachan, of Winslow; grandson Gabriel, of Sanbornton, New Hampshire; sisters Margaret, of Waterville, and Carole, of Caldwell, Georgia; nieces, Jessica Turner and fiancé Jason, and two sons Daniel and Anthony, Jaime Fagan and husband Chris, with daughter Lorelai, and Salina Young and her three children, Trinity, Harmony and Kaysin; many cousins, the Languets, Greg, Gary, Melanie, Denise, Dolores, Cindy, Peter and Jay, and their spouses, children and grandchildren.

A Celebration of Life will take place on Sunday, October 13, 2024, at the Sidney Event Room, 255 Trafton Road, Sidney, from 1 – 3 p.m.

Others Departed

RACHEL J. PRADILLA

INWOOD, W. Va. – Rachel Judy Pradilla, 68, of Inwood, West Virginia, passed away Friday, September 13, 2024, at Berkeley Medical Center.

Born October 8, 1955, in Waterville, she was the daughter of the late Joseph Felix Hutchison, Sr. and Rella Fernette Hutchison.

Rachel is survived by her husband, Diego Pradilla; sons, Ryan Frank Nason Sr. and wife Kim, and Rodney Allen Nason and wife Rachel; daughter, Robin Leah Pradilla; grandchildren, Cassidy, Katrina, Ryan Jr., Robert, and Sky Lee; brothers, David Sr., and Brian, both of Vassalboro, and Peter, of Port Charlotte, Florida; sisters, Betty, of Fredericksburg, Virginia, Jean, of Waterbury, Connecticut, Janet, of Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, and Cindy, of Waterville; as well as numerous nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles and cousins.

In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by brothers, Richard, Joseph Jr. and Allen; sisters, Norma and Sally; and an Aunt Evelyn.

A memorial service will be held on Saturday, October 19, 2024, at 3 p.m., at the Brown Funeral Home.

Online condolences may be offered at http://www.BrownFuneralHomesWV.com.

DANA HAMMOND

AUGUSTA – Dana Hammond, 79, of Somerville, passed away on Sunday, September 8, 2024. He was born June 24, 1945, to Irvin and Reta Hammond.

Dana’s graveside service with military honors will be held on Thursday, September 19, at 1 p.m., at the Maine Veterans Cemetery, 163 Mt. Vernon Road, Augusta. Relatives and friends are respectfully invited.

BETTY JANE BURNHAM

AUGUSTA – Betty Jane Burnham, 70, passed away on Wednesday, August 28, 2024, at Glenridge Hospice, in Augusta, where she suffered from frontal lobe dementia. Betty was born October 2, 1953, to Lucy and Arthur Whitaker, Sr., in Augusta.

She was the fourth youngest of 18 children. Betty went to China schools and graduated Salutatorian at Erskine Academy, in South China, Class of 1973.

She married Lyle Burnham Sr., on April 20, 1973, and they made their home in Belgrade. Betty went to work after graduating at the State of Maine’s Inland Fisheries & Wildlife for four – six years. She and her husband went on to raise a daughter, Lisa, and a son, Lyle Jr.

When her children were older, Betty would also clean camps in Belgrade during the summers. She worked for over 20 plus years as a secretary/custodian at Central Maine Power Company. She loved watching cooking shows and listening to country music. She would get up at 5 a.m. to have a cup of coffee with her husband and read the newspaper.

Betty enjoyed her life with her family, husband, children, and adored her grandchildren. She was a big help with her grandchildren cooking delicious foods and desserts. She also enjoyed going to the Winterport Raceway with her sisters Muriel, Mary, Marie, Elaine, and Brenda to watch their brother Mike drag race.

She was predeceased by her parents; four sisters Vera Whitaker, Wilma Whitaker, Eltheia Girard, and Susie Potter, one brother Harold Whitaker (2021); several nephews; grandniece; grandson Bradley (2006); Lyle Sr (2013), and daughter Lisa (April 2024).

Betty is survived by her son Lyle Jr; eight sisters Belva MacComb, Marie Vigue, Elaine Brochu, Muriel Michaud, Mary Shaw, Jean Mason, Irene Poulin, Brenda McCamish; four brothers Willard Whitaker, Meldon Whitaker, David Whitaker, and Mike Whitaker; four grandsons David, Connor, Jayden, and Ricky III; and one granddaughter Alina Rodrigue; along with many nieces and nephews; many grandnieces and grandnephews; and cousins.

Graveside services for Saturday, September 21, at 2 p.m., at Pine Grove Cemetery, in Belgrade, are handled by Gallant Funeral Home and Mary-Anne MacArthur.

Arrangements are under the direction and care of Gallant Funeral Home, 10 Elm Street, Waterville. An online guestbook may be signed, condolences and memories shared at http://www.gallantfh.com.