Up and down the Kennebec Valley: Bacon families: Sidney early settlers

by Mary Grow

Among early settlers in Sidney against whose lives your writer brushed while trying unsuccessfully to learn why someone chose to name the town after a long-dead Englishman were the Bacon, Faught, Lovejoy, Marsh and Snow families.

Now she presents more information about the Bacons, with a double warning: readers uninterested in genealogy should skip this article, and those who read it and are not confused by the end haven’t been paying attention.

The Sidney Bacons started with three brothers, the third, sixth and seventh of 11 children (eight sons, three daughters) of Josiah Bacon II and Sarah (Davis) Bacon. Why these three moved to Maine while their siblings stayed in Massachusetts, who knows?

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The oldest brother (who was not mentioned last week) was David, born Aug. 30, 1730, in Bedford, Massachusetts, and died in 1819 in Sidney, according to the on-line website Familysearch. Michael Denis listed him in his admirably comprehensive Bacon genealogy, found on line.

Beyond these sources, your writer has found no other information about David Bacon.

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Ebenezer Bacon plan for land, 1773. (Courtesy of Maine Memory Network)

Ebenezer Bacon was born in Bedford Sept. 15, 1736. In 1762, in Boston, he married Abigail Farwell (1734 -1817), widow of Levi Richardson (whom she had married in Woburn, Massachusetts, in 1753). These two are the first of many Ebenezer and Abigail Bacons to live in Sidney.

Denis found in an earlier Bacon genealogy that Ebenezer came to Maine in 1755, as part of the British garrison at Fort Halifax, in what became Winslow. His name is in records of fort expenditures and activities until 1759; he was involved in repairing boats, hauling hay and providing 30 gallons of rum.

After the war, this source says, he settled in Vassalboro, where he got a land grant in 1763 or 1773 (sources differ) and bought land from younger brother James in 1769. James’ lot is specifically identified as on the west – Sidney – side of the Kennebec; the writer added that when Ebenezer sold it in 1772, he said it was in Vassalboro (Sidney not yet existing, why not?).

(Is this the same Ebenezer Bacon who had a large farm in the north end of Waterville by 1770? Quite probably, but your writer cannot prove or disprove it.)

This early source says Ebenezer Bacon was a constable in Sidney in 1775, a tithing man in 1777 and a surveyor of highways in 1778.

Bacon died in 1798; he had made his will Feb. 12, 1798, and it was probated Aug. 2. His widow, Abigail Farwell Bacon, died in Waterville in September 1817.

Ebenezer Bacon’s genealogy, as found on two different websites, is a masterpiece of confusing names.

To begin with, Ebenezer (1736) and Abigail Farwell named their children Frances (born in 1763), Ebenezer, Jr. (1765; he was executor of his father’s will), William (1768) and Abigail (born Aug. 23, 1770, in Sidney).

Ebenezer Jr., married Hannah Lovejoy on Nov. 28, 1793, in Vassalboro.

Hannah Lovejoy was born in Sidney Nov. 19, 1773, daughter of Captain Abiel Lovejoy, Sr. (1731- 1811) who married Mary Brown (1741 – 1812), “the belle of Charlestown [Massachusetts],” on Dec. 14, 1758. (There will be more about the Sidney Lovejoys in a later article in this series.)

Ebenezer, Jr., and Hannah had at least seven children, as follows: Columbus Clark (1794), Ebenezer Farwell (1796), Evelina (1800), Julia Ann (1803), Elizabeth (1806), John Hancock (1808, labeled a twin but no other name is listed) and Samuel Adams (1812).

Separation record, 1816. (courtesy of Maine Memory Network)

Only the two oldest were born in Sidney. Later births in Waterville make it seem likely that Ebenezer Jr., was the Ebenezer Bacon who was elected one of Waterville’s three selectmen at the July 26, 1802, town meeting, the first after Waterville separated from Winslow.

The moderator for that meeting was Elnathan Sherwin, born in 1762, in Dunstable, Massachusetts. This prominent citizen represented Waterville in the Massachusetts legislature from 1799 through 1809 and again from 1812 through 1815; in September 1814, he was a lieutenant colonel in the Augusta-based militia.

Sherwin’s wife was Abigail Bacon, born Aug. 23, 1770, daughter of Ebenezer (1736) and Abigail. The Sherwins had four daughters and two sons; the older son they named William Bacon Sherwin, after his uncle William (1768).

One Lovejoy genealogy says Capt. Abiel and Mary (Brown) Lovejoy had two other daughters besides Hannah who married Ebenezer Bacon, Jr. The oldest Lovejoy girl was Abigail, born Jan. 1, 1770, in Pownalborough; on Dec. 1, 1794, she married William Bacon (1768; Ebenezer Jr.’s, younger brother), in Vassalboro.

The genealogy where your writer found this information lists no children from this marriage.

The Bacons did not have a monopoly on Ebenezers. The genealogy just mentioned says Captain Abiel and Mary Lovejoy’s youngest daughter, Phebe (born Oct. 1, 1785, in Vassalboro), married Ebenezer Morse (born in 1787 on Cape Cod), on Sept. 12, 1803, in Vassalboro.

Between 1805 and 1828 Phebe gave birth to seven sons and three daughters, all born in Vassalboro or Sidney. Of course, one son was named Ebenezer (Morse, not Bacon).

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Backing up to the first generation of central Maine Bacons, the youngest was David and Ebenezer’s kid brother James H., born in Massachusetts in 1737 (according to Alice Hammond’s history of Sidney) or on June 30, 1738 (Denis). He married Abigail Marsh, born in 1747.

Hammond wrote that James H. “was educated as a physician,” without further details. He served in the British forces (location unspecified) in 1758; got a land grant in Sidney in 1763, was involved in numerous land deals and ran the tavern where the first Vassalboro town meeting was held in 1771.

Denis, again citing the earlier genealogy, wrote that James H. and Abigail had at least three sons, whom they named James (no birth date, but he was old enough to marry in June 1791), William Marsh (born in 1782) and – of course — Ebenezer (born in 1788).

A newspaper article that Hammond quoted said William Marsh Bacon married Polly, born March 9, 1783, and “probably a sister to Abial Lovejoy.” Familysearch, however, says William Bacon married Polly Densmore on Jan. 1, 1806, in Sidney.

This source says Polly Densmore was born March 9, 1788 (not 1783), in Vassalboro, daughter of Samuel and Mary Polly (Lovejoy) Densmore. Find a Grave identifies her as Polly Mary Densmore Bacon, and shows a photo of the gravestone of “Mary wife of Wm. Bacon.”

One source says Mary Polly Lovejoy was the daughter of Capt. Abiel Lovejoy, Sr., and sister to Abiel Lovejoy, Jr. (1764 – 1858). Her daughter Polly (Densmore) Bacon, by this account, was the granddaughter of one Abiel Lovejoy and the niece of another, but sister to neither.

Find a Grave says Mary Polly (Lovejoy) Densmore was born April 30, 1761, in Charlestown, Massachusetts, and died in Sidney Nov. 19, 1789, when she was 28 and her daughter Polly was a child (whichever of Polly’s birth dates is correct).

The newspaper article and Familysearch disagree on how many children William and Polly Bacon had. Here is a combined list of these alleged grandchildren of James and Abigail Bacon, listed in birth order.

The oldest was Polenah, or Paulina, or both in either order, born in 1805 (when her mother was 17 years old) or, according to her gravestone, June 25, 1806, and died on April 12, 1879, in Sidney. On Feb. 9, 1824, Paulina married William Hamlin or Hamlen (1801 or 1802 – 1879), born in Augusta. Sources say they had 13 or 14 children, several of whom died young.

(Namsor.app, a web name checker, says Polenah is a female name, perhaps of eastern African/Kenyan or Israeli origin. Abial is also east African, farther north, perhaps Ethiopian.)

Next came a son Familysearch says was named Polemah or Pliney, born in 1806. The lack of additional information suggests he died in childhood.

Abial Densmore Bacon was born Jan. 12, 1807. He married Almira Faught (born about 1813, or 1816) in Hallowell on Dec. 26, 1847; they had three daughters before she died March 7 or 8, 1859. He died Dec. 3, 1878, and is buried in Sidney’s Reynolds cemetery with his wife and other Bacons.

Familysearch next lists two daughters, Abegail Densmore (born Jan. 12, 1807, so presumably Abial’s twin) and Abibail Dinsmore (born June 12, 1808). The similarity of names (or are they the same name, carelessly copied?) and, again, the lack of more information suggest neither girl lived past infancy.

The next son listed was a second William Marsh (though he is not called Jr. in any source your writer found), born April 21, 1810. He married Sarah Hamlen (or Hamlin; born 1810?) on Nov. 14, 1832, in Sidney; she was probably the sister or half-sister of his sister Paulina’s husband (sources disagree on dates and on Sarah’s middle initial). William and Sarah had a son, Oliver William Bacon, born Dec. 6, 1833, in Augusta.

William and Polly’s next son was Alfred A., born July 17, 1813 (Familysearch) or 1814 (Find a Grave), husband of Parthenia F. Thayer (1821 – Oct. 16, 1893) and father of James A. Bacon (1845-1919, bearing his great-grandfather’s first name) and Clara Elizabeth Bacon (1851 – ?).

Alfred, Parthenia and son James A. are buried in Reynolds Cemetery. Clara married Horace A. Reynolds on April 6, 1872, in Sidney and lived there for “about fifty years.” According to Find a Grave, neither Clara nor Horace is buried in Reynolds cemetery, despite the matching names.

William and Polly’s daughter, Harriet Thomas, was born July 5, 1815, married John Ham and died in Norridgewock, Jan. 15, 1875.

Nancy Densmore was born May 9, 1818. She married John Brackett on Dec. 23, 1838; there is no record of children.

William and Polly’s last child was a son they named Artemas Kimball (June 21, 1820 – Sept. 27, 1870). He married Esther E. Young, in Hallowell, on July 30, 1848; their son, Edwin K. Bacon, carried on the family name from 1849 to 1913.

Artemas was the only child his grandfather James could not have known – James died in 1819. His widow, Abigail, lived until 1834, and could have met some of her great-grandchildren.

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In one final confusion, your writer searched for the gravesites of James H. Bacon family members buried in Sidney, having found references to burials in the Lovejoy cemetery and a cemetery called first Densmore and now Dinsmore.

The list of Sidney cemeteries on the Find a Grave website includes Lovejoy, but not Densmore or Dinsmore. Sidney’s Dinsmore cemetery was found on a town website related to the cemetery committee, with a note saying it is also called the Bacon’s Corner cemetery.

In the Lovejoy cemetery, Find a Grave lists James H. Bacon; Abigail; their son William, who died Oct. 15, 1852; and William’s widow, Mary Polly Densmore Bacon. In the Dinsmore cemetery, Sidney’s municipal list has the same four names.

Hammond, describing Sidney cemeteries in 1992, wrote this paragraph:

“On the Densmore Road near Bacon’s Corner is an old burial ground which at one time had a tomb with the name ‘Lovejoy’ carved on a granite block over the door. The land was sold by Densmore to a group of neighbors. It has no visible means of support. Since it borders a public road no right of way was necessary.”

On July 29, 2024, your writer found, on the north side of Dinsmore Road a short distance east of Bacon’s Corner, a plainly labeled Lovejoy Cemetery. Marked graves include those of the four Bacons listed above, and William and Paulina (Bacon) Hamlin and three of their children.

Main sources

Denis, Michael J., Families of Oakland, Maine December 2023 found on line.
Hammond, Alice, History of Sidney Maine 1792-1992 (1992).

Websites, miscellaneous.